It’s a common thing with men and you can easily take charge of it if it’s bothering you – find some internet security systems and have them installed, don’t let him have the passwords. Simple. This is particularly important if you have children and it is a shared computer that you’re using. This can however, have the potential to make him extremely angry and the chances are, he’ll start doing it again in secret.

Share with him your concerns – make him understand you find it degrading, it makes you feel unwanted and that it makes you feel less attracted to him. Of course he still loves you – there will be other signs if he doesn’t – so the chances are he is willing to make a change. However, we all have habits we’re not proud of, so consider things you do that might irk him. Can you come to some kind of compromise? Remember also, men have a far higher sex drive than women (usually) so maybe what he’s getting from you isn’t enough.

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